Hello Everyone,
It is yet another beautiful day in Guyana. Currently the group has some down time and we are all either napping, reading, or sunbathing. This morning we travelled to the convalescent home where we spent a few hours providing infants,toddlers, and disabled children with some well-deserved attention. They were all so cute and well-behaved, but it was difficult being there and understanding that these children didn't have the kind of smothering affection we had received as children.
Today was particularly difficult for me because Ibby, Danika, and I went and played with an 8-year-old who was mentally handicapped. He was alone in a room without anything to play with and his caretakers said that he liked to be alone. Shortly after joining him and playing some music, we realized how happy he was to have us around. We danced and danced with him and he had the biggest smile. It was phenomenal to be able to make him so cheerful.
Another child, Kevin, joined him and the first thing he did was hug me. I was warned that he was a biter and I became frightened he would really chomp down on me if I wasn't careful, but again, found this to be slightly incorrect. All he wanted was to be hugged and held and to look out the window. He seemed to really be enjoying himself, as was I, although by this point I was drenched in sweat and wishing for another fan in the room.
All too soon, it was time to go, and Kevin and David stood in front of the door to block us from leaving. His distress was very painful to watch, and my guilt for leaving him was overwhelming. I just fear that, more often than not, he is left staring out that window watching the world go by. It is not my place to judge the kind of care that he is receiving because my time here is so limited, but it is definitely challenging.
The Guyanese agencies that care for these individuals are still a little behind in their conceptions of the developmentally-disabled, and I know that until recently in the USA we acted in similar ways, so it is unfair to hold them to a higher standard. By most standards, Kevin and David were well-fed, clean,and clothed. But is that enough? From our classes at night, the group must consider whether a person deserves more than what is offered to them in the way of rights. Love cannot be provided through a law; it must be given by the surrounding communities.
The question is really what makes a life worth living. Do we owe it to Others to do more than simply respect their rights? ...My answer is yes, but I'll be damned if I know how to make that happen.
Alright, the group is being roused for the next site---I hope this blog post was interesting enough, and just know that everyone here is having their bodies as well as their minds and souls nourished.
All the best,
Amanda